It’s nearly impossible to find a woman who admits to watching pornography. Personally I’ve never met one. Have you ever wondered why they don’t admit it even though you and I know very well that most of them do?
Most men admit to watching porn on a regular basis, but there are some of them like Uncle Chim who are always in denial. When we caught him watching, he claimed it was “artsy”/ “sensual” type of porn. Anyway, he’s not a woman (although there is no evidence to dispute any claim that he is one either but hey, I am not going to look and search).
According to a leading relationship writer, here are the reasons why some women feel the need to keep their porn watching habits in lock-down mode. .
1. It’s still considered taboo. While watching porn may be lightening up when it comes to just how “wrong” it is to society, there are still people who consider this extremely taboo. But for some reason, it’s more wrong for women to watch it than for men. Yay for double standards!
So, they don’t tell anyone. No girl wants to be viewed as someone who engages in something that’s considered taboo. They don’t want the label that is associated with watching porn.
2. They are embarrassed. This stems from watching porn being considered taboo. It’s not something that women are “supposed” to be doing – in a traditional sense. So they get embarrassed for people to know that we do watch it.
3. It’s considered unladylike. Society’s stereotype of women being only a certain way – that way being their preconceived perception of “proper” – has hindered a woman’s freedom of expression. They feel that if they step outside of that ladylike image, people will view them as impure and undesirable.
4. They fear the judgment –“Oh my gosh! She watches porn? She must be promiscuous. Ew!” Believe it or not, this is the reaction from a lot of girls who find out that other girls watch porn. But really, they probably watch it too!
5. Privacy – Some women may not even care about what society thinks. For them, it’s more about their own privacy.
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