Amini Usiamini! Here Are 5 Reasons Why Some Single Wealthy Kenyan Women Nyemelea Boda Boda And Security Men

Most of you may not know this, but there is a growing trend that has me worried.

Some single Kenyan women who are stable financially are now turning to boda boda men and security guards/watchmen for sexual satisfaction.

So, here is a case where a lady has a good job that pays well, is single and lives alone. Yet she does not want the burden or restrictions that come with being in a committed long term relationship. Such women claim that men have become complicated and that there are no good ones left to settle down with.

So these women, mostly living in Nairobi’s posh estates are now going after security men and boda-boda guys for ‘lungula’. It’s never about dating or company, just the ‘D’.

I was a bit perturbed by this realization, especially because an independent woman should not find it hard to get a classy bachelor to hang out with or have a good time.

Don’t get me wrong; these boda boda riders and watchmen are not at all complaining about the sudden attention they are receiving from women. The benefit for them is beyond the sex; they get to pocket some cash as well from the trysts.

Well, I sought to find out why this previously choosy women with class are now seeking satisfaction from men outside their high social class. Here are some of the reasons I got for this somewhat weird trend.

1. No Commitments
Such ladies do not want a man who will crowd their space by demanding too much or someone who might want to settle down at the end of the day. All she wants is to satisfy her sexual desires and off he goes, most of the time he will not even sleepover unless she wants another dose in the morning. But even when he does, he has to be out by 5 in the morning.

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