When she finally says yes to the first date with you, there are usually a few things that come to your mind. First, you start worrying about what to say to her on that day. Secondly, you think about what to do and what not to do when you’ll get to meet her. There’s nothing like the feeling of uncertainty on your first date.
I’ve been there before and I must admit, you need a plan. Failing to plan is planning to fail. A first date should be awesome for the both of you and if you get things right, you really shouldn’t have any pressure. Rejection is real and it sucks but you can avoid it. The key is to get it right.
Gentlemen, here’s some great help. These are some of the essential things that you need to keep in mind for a great first date. The ladies reading this will agree.
1. Call. Don’t WhatsApp or text
If you’re setting up a date and you have her number, don’t do it over WhatsApp and don’t do it over text messaging (…and yes, that includes, Viber, Telegram, WeChat or any that’s using her phone number). You risk coming across as weak. Give her a call – she deserves your attention. Like a good gentleman, ask her how she’s been doing and create some rapport. When the conversation is flowing, get to it – ask her out. Show her you’ve got it together. She’ll respect that and she won’t say no. Definitely scores you some marks.
2. Arrive early
If you agree to meet out somewhere, be the first to arrive. Don’t show up an hour later. You’re the man, period. Get there early, find a nice place to sit and be sure that you’ve got the cash ready to sort out the bill. Yes, a gentleman sorts out the bill because he’s the one who asked her out. Be patient while you wait. It shows that you’re a gentleman who can handle her well.
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