Over the past 5 years, I’ve seen my close friends get friend zoned and quickly picked essential nuances and life lessons from their failures. Let’s start by knowing what this fuss about being friend zoned is all about.
“When a member of the opposite sex (usually one you want to hook up with) declares you to be “just a friend”, thereby ruining all potential chances of sex,” by @whiteknownpirate April 26, 2009 via Urban Dictionary.
When you get friend zoned, that’s the end of your prospects of ‘tapping’ that guava. So, you won’t be able to sing along to Big Sean’s “Paradise” with pride.
Here’s an assortment of useful tips that will shield you from the friend zone arrow. You won’t be sad like Chris Brown when he broke up with Karueche Tran and Rihanna.
1. Don’t be mushy
First things first, girls hate the John Legend in the room, unless he’s John himself. Do not be all lovey dovey a few hours after you hook up with a hot chic. Unfortunately, instead of seeing you as a caring, potential boyfriend or husband, girls will see you as a weak man. You will be sending out the wrong signals. Save that for the bedroom. Have normal conversations, don’t overcompliment and let the magic happen.
2. Don’t ask for nude pics
This is probably the worst mistake you can do. Unless she initiates the conversation herself, keep off this path. You may think that you will arouse her through the phone – especially if you met her two days ago – but that is so 2010. I mean, who asks for nudes from a stranger. This is a lesson I will always uphold whenever I intend to court a girl, something that has not happened for ages (sigh).
You’re probably doing number 3… >>
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