Monday 24 October 2016

Aki, I Swear I’m Cursed – Cries Lonely Nairobi Girl. Kilimani Mums Offer Interesting Solutions

A cry for help should be taken seriously. In today’s world where everything is fast paced, people rarely have time to catch up with friends and family. Hence the reason why, one woman went to the Kilimani Mums group on Facebook and posted about being depressed with life.

Thanks to Kilimani Mums, the lady got some encouraging words and hopefully, she will not do something drastic with her life.

The lady using a pseudo account posted,

“Mums aki am in tears writing this.. i think am the loneliest person on earth.. no friends, an uncaring boyfriend and nothing ever goes my way hadi sometimes i think am cursed.. all i do is cry day in day out.. i dont know what to door even who to talk to,” She wrote.

Names have been removed to protect their identities. They encourage her to avoid sinking deeper into depression. Here are some of the comments.

Tuko wengi but For me when I feel like That i go on my kneels and it works for me..

Are you in the house? On your bed? Have you had a meal today? Did you wake up.. shower.. walk around n all that? Then count your blessings. Some are in hospitals.. cant talk.. cant type on fb.. some have lost everything!!! Just say a silent prayer.. n stay positive. All will be well.. you are never alone.. God is right besides you.. you just dont see him.. look closely. We usually don’t see the blessings in times of troubles.. am just trying to open her eyes to see that even in the darkest moments.. there is something to smile about.. and tomorrow will come with hopes and better things.. if she stays positive and thankful to God for the good of today.

You nid to be friends with God then u wil also need to love u more.learn to love u bila apology and whoever needs u wil find it easy to love u.just dnt compromise ua worth for the need to belong

For me my prayer is i move on and forget that one guy who has wasted me and my time

Better ww uko na uyo uncaring bf,Mimi cna nko thingo,n am stress free,when u learn to trust n.hope in God nothing gonna stress u n u will have peace of heart,am #teamJesus#nothingworrysme#womanofprayer#

Dnt worry we are sisters, a times you feel like the whole world is against you until you ask God what crimes have you committed that he cnt 4give you

I’m not exactly an expert in this; Dump that “boyfriend”. He’s the first reason you’re lonely if he’s uncaring 😢😢😢 that’sthe only way to grab yourself back. To love yourself. To learn to enjoy your own company. To be totally okay with loneliness. Loneliness is good at some point you’ll see that. God Will see things work for you from there.

Don’t let negative thoughts creep in, in your life they may worsen.Always be positive n try to make yourself happy.No one will.Eliminate the uncaring idiot in your life it could one of the factors causing you to feel so

How about a new city a new job and a new residence. Get your ass moving girl, you are too young to give up. Go be that nice girl elsewhere and you will look back and wonder why wasted your time with idiots who didn’t appreciate you

Step #1.. Start loving yourself
I know, I can tell that so many of you suffer from depression. I know that some of us self-harm themselves, I know that some people of us take pills to reduce the pain, I know that it’s hurting, I know that our kind of pain hardly goes away and when we start thinking that it’s subsiding, it comes back again. We hardly tell anyone about the monsters of our insecurities that devour us from inside out.

But, I see and read the darkness in your eyes. I read it from your posts. I can see you desperately try to hide it, fear of what will happen if you let go.
Our world, it is harsh and demanding, it will do anything and believe me when I say that, anything to break you down and rip you apart from who you are. But promise me one thing please that you won’t try to let go by hurting yourself. Find your life support and hold onto them as tightly as you can and do not ever try to let your fingers slip, believe that you are strong to fight the stigma, don’t let yourself drown.
You will get tired, you will wonder if the pain is worth waiting for a moment you wash up on the shore, the moment of bliss when you succeed, the moment of happiness that you don’t even know if it will ever come. But it is. Hold on and if you ever get swept away, don’t let yourself drown without a fight. If you have to, come back screaming and thrashing to the surface. Because you can do it, You can make it. You will find support, you will find land and you will survive.

I was in that same position last year a time like this until I learnt that the secret is loving myself. F*ck that relationship. It’s not an onion. It won’t be easy but it’s worth it. Do things that make you happy. Pray for Peace of mind. And you will see just how happy you become. I have never been happier in my life.

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